so i was wonderin if anyone can help me about this and wat it means i had lit my lovers candle today and the flames were really high...i stepped out of my room for about 5 mins and when i returned to my room my side of the candle was out but his was still lit so prayed on it again and lit it and both flames were high again well i shut my door and i went back in 30 mins later and they both were out....and i tried to re light both but niether one will lit they just keep sparkin....wat does this mean...did i just get a bad candle...i heard that u can try 3 times to relight a candle someone please help
It certainly could be a bad candle (It is helpful to know in advance how a type of candle usually burns, to judge that.) There are also many other things than can put out a candle such as placing it in a draft or near a door that opens and closes a lot, or overdressing your candle with oils or herbs.
Since you're having trouble getting the candle to relight, it sounds like it is not being blown out by a breeze but rather something is wrong with the wick. If you overdressed it (like dusting the candle with a lot of mineral or resin powders, or putting too much oil on it) that might be the culprit. Also, if the candle is a jar candle (glass-encased) I often find those are hard to relight if they go out at all -- the best thing you can do there is scrape out an inch or two of the wax to give the wick room to breathe when you relight it.
If none of those are the problem, I'd say that the flame going out is ominous, and the universe is warning you that things might not work out how you want. In that case, you may need to use a different type of spell (for example, maybe a control spell instead of a love spell) or use stronger methods than candle work.