Write the full name of your target nine times on brown paper in dove's blood ink. Cover the name with a command written nine times. Fold the paper towards you twice, so the paper is in three parts.
Put the following lamp ingredients in the glass container, on top of the name paper. Add personal items if available.
9 drops Come to Me Oil
9 drops of Five Senses Oil
9 drops Red Precipitado
9 drops Do As I Say Oil
1 teaspoon Damiana
1 teaspoon Catnip
Commanding Powder
Prepare your wick and fill with Olive Oil. Light the lamp on a Friday. Pray over the lamp each night for nine nights.
Tend to the lamp by adding more Olive Oil daily as it burns. Add more oils as needed to scent the lamp. After nine nights, remove the wick and add it to a Come To Me Bath.
Reference: new orleans mystic
If your trouble is with getting his attention, I'd suggest using Glow of Attraction oil, and wearing it on yourself like a perfume. If you still are having trouble, you can carve his name on a red skull candle and dress with Glow of Attraction and magnetic sand, and some kind of domination oil (Commanding, Compelling, Domination, Bend Over -- any of those) and command the skull, which represents him, to give you lots of attention.
