In the past 3 years I have had a lot of bad fortune! Ironically its when I met my boyfriend. I gave birth to 2 still born babies and have lost a lot in my life. Me and my boyfriends mother do not get along and she wants her son to leave me. I also had a dream of 2 candles on an alter separating from each other. I do not know much about Santeria but wanted to know how I could know if someone is working against me or is it just bad luck? since i moved away from the town we lived in... where she lives. I gave birth to a healthy baby boy....
A very traditional way to diagnose a curse is to put a piece of silver in your mouth for a minute or so, and if it turns black then it means there's something on you (it has to be real silver though -- you can't use any other metal.)
Another trick you can use is to get a deck of playing cards, and while shuffling ask "Who cursed me?" or something like that. Then draw a card -- if it's a card with a figure on it (that would be a King, Queen or Jack) then someone put something on you, and the card provides information about them. (see the book
The Cartomancer's Key for more information on that.)
It does sound like unnaturally bad luck, although I will say that if your antagonist were using candle spells, moving away wouldn't have any effect on it.
