10-15-2009, 11:25 AM
These are famously some of the most difficult types of spells to make work. Reasons include denial of the true problem, lingering resentment, and a lack of courage or of mental clarity that can just make things worse.
I wrote a little article here detailing some of the issues and changes a person may need to make, but I didn't detail some of the examples of behaviors people do that ruin even otherwise successful love workings. These include:
OBSESSION:
Casting too many spells, calling the target all the time, worrying constantly to the point that the negative emotion corrupts the spell's positive influences
LACK OF COMMITMENT:
Failing to perform elements of your own spells (whether casting yourself or hiring a caster), ignoring the other party in favor of other pursuits, unwillingness to change your own ways for the sake of the relationship
LACK OF COURAGE:
Unwillingness to try to contact or interact with the other party for fear they'll react poorly, allowing the other party to treat you badly for fear that complaining will upset them
RESENTMENT AND ANGER:
Thinking angry thoughts to the point the love spell is ruined by the negative emotion, disapproving if the other party fails to return wounded and desperate, lingering anger over the issue that caused the initial breakup
Because many of these stem from issues of mental clarity, beginning any reconciliation love work with a good sage and mint cleansing may help avoid these common traps.
I wrote a little article here detailing some of the issues and changes a person may need to make, but I didn't detail some of the examples of behaviors people do that ruin even otherwise successful love workings. These include:
OBSESSION:
Casting too many spells, calling the target all the time, worrying constantly to the point that the negative emotion corrupts the spell's positive influences
LACK OF COMMITMENT:
Failing to perform elements of your own spells (whether casting yourself or hiring a caster), ignoring the other party in favor of other pursuits, unwillingness to change your own ways for the sake of the relationship
LACK OF COURAGE:
Unwillingness to try to contact or interact with the other party for fear they'll react poorly, allowing the other party to treat you badly for fear that complaining will upset them
RESENTMENT AND ANGER:
Thinking angry thoughts to the point the love spell is ruined by the negative emotion, disapproving if the other party fails to return wounded and desperate, lingering anger over the issue that caused the initial breakup
Because many of these stem from issues of mental clarity, beginning any reconciliation love work with a good sage and mint cleansing may help avoid these common traps.